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Date:      Wed, 23 Jul 1997 12:51:06 -0600 (MDT)
From:      Nate Williams <nate@mt.sri.com>
To:        ac199@hwcn.org
Cc:        "Jonathan M. Bresler" <jmb@freebsd.org>, freebsd-chat@hub.freebsd.org
Subject:   Re: FTC regulating use of registrations 
Message-ID:  <199707231851.MAA14333@rocky.mt.sri.com>
In-Reply-To: <Pine.BSF.3.96.970723122651.17317B-100000@ppp6564.on.sympatico.ca>
References:  <4643.869672082@time.cdrom.com> <Pine.BSF.3.96.970723122651.17317B-100000@ppp6564.on.sympatico.ca>

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> jmb would argue that parents are putting careers ahead of their
> family.  I don't think that this is fair.  Despite all the speak of
> "empowerment" and what-not, I think the reason that both parents are
> often working now is simple economics.  There may well be some who
> do this, but not the vast masses.

I disagree.  I live in Montana, where we have one of the lowest
income/family in the nation.  And, due to it's 'ruralness' we haven't
kept up with the 'standard' with two working parents, so most two-parent
families leave one of them at home *in spite* of their low-income.  This
is mostly due to what's acceptable from being a parent, and what's not
in rural America.

It's all a matter of what's important.  Is having a car that < 3 years
old, sending your kids to private schools, having nice furniture, or
children that spend time with their parents more important?  It's all a
matter of perspective.

To over-simplify it, you have a choice of spending time with your kids
now, or providing a good future for them apart from you.  If you're a
parent, go ask you kids which choice they prefer. :) :) :)



Nate



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